Thursday, October 31, 2013

The Pains of Perceived Perfection

Not sure where you are with your current fitness level, but most anyone can relate to this:

Let's say you've been working out for a while (weeks, months, years) and you've seen a measured amount of progress. Maybe you're leaner, clothes fit better, and/or you're noticeably stronger than you were the last time you checked.

But you wake up one day and you just don't feel right. Sleep was less than spectacular, the alarm clock went off much earlier than your body was ready for, and you're pushing it to get to work on time. You shuffle through work (extra caffeinated please) and it's safe to say you're not firing on all cylinders. You know that after work you're going to have to get in a workout and you're just NOT feeling it.

By time you lift the first weight, you're shocked at how a weight that was so easy a week ago feels like a ton of bricks now. By the end of your workout, you know you didn't make one bit of progress. Depressed, tired, and aggravated you beat yourself up unmercifully the rest of the evening.

If you've never experienced this, you can easily switch out exercise for diet. You know, you eat REALLY well for a few days and you're already seeing weight loss, then you eat that cheeseburger and order of fries you told yourself you weren't going to touch. The next day you're bloated and the scale is laughing at you.

All too often, people expect perfection from themselves. I see it here with my clients on a regular basis. The thing is, NOTHING is that easy to perfect.

Your job doesn't operate on perfection and perfect accomplishments, recognitions, etc.
Your marital/intimate relationship isn't happiness and sunshine every day.
You don't have days of perfect parenting.
And most certainly, you don't have infinite days of perfect eating or perfect workouts.

I have 3 words I will affectionately say: Suck it up.

You may have heard the adage, "If it was easy, everyone could do it"

This goes for really any aspect of your life: work, healthy relationship(s), parenting, workouts, diet, you name it.

It's time to get away from the guilt of your less-than-perfect days. Not only are they inevitable, they're necessary.

The people who can work through the proverbial valleys of progress are the ones who appreciate and enjoy the peaks.
The people who cherish consistency and can forgive the detours they make, reap the highest benefits.

Understand that your body due to age, genetics, and any other imperfections will see different peaks and valleys.

Perfection, while admirable, is a bit misguided.

Aim for progress.
Hold yourself accountable.
Stop blaming external stimuli for everything you don't get accomplished properly.
And then remove the guilt from your misgivings and trudge on.

The people enjoying the spoils of their efforts have already embraced these things.

We can help!

Friday, October 11, 2013

158 in 52

When I've been asked about why I did it, I point my finger in the same direction: Pat Rigsby. In the fitness industry, Pat has been one of many influential pioneers. As a fellow fitness entrepreneur, I was reading one of his success manuals and he made the comment that he tries to stay ahead of the pack by reading constantly. To the tune of 3 books a week. At that point, I told myself: "If one of the leaders in my industry can do it, then I should be making the effort as well".

Little did I know, how taking on this task would change me both personally and professionally.

At first, it was a welcome challenge. I've always loved reading and I was already buying books at a faster rate than I was reading them so it seemed like as good a time as any to get started.

To help keep myself accountable, each Monday morning I would get on Facebook and list the next 3 books I had racked up on my mission. I had no idea how long I would keep it up for but I knew that if I made some type of public announcement, it would keep me honest and keep me on pace.

So that I wouldn't get stale on the reading material I would give myself one book on exercise, one on nutrition, and one on motivation/self-help/business etc. I didn't always stick very closely to that formula but that's how it started.

On average, I would consume 600 pages a week. Total time expended: roughly 2 hours a day. The longest book I read: Total Recall by Arnold Schwarzenegger (646 pgs). The shortest book: Flinch by Julien Smith (approx 60 pgs).

Along the way, several things started to happen either as a result of or pure coincidence: More thought went into interactions with clients, friends, and family. My business grew over 25%. I felt more confident as an individual, business owner, father, fiance, friend and son.

There were 2 separate occasions when I read 4 books in a week, hence the 158 books as opposed to 156. I'd be lying if I told you it wasn't difficult. There were a handful of occasions where I would be up reading on a Sunday night trying to cram in the last book so I could report in by Monday. I also had to get somewhat strategic about the books I read on a given week if I knew I'd be out of town or busier than normal. So there were weeks where the books were intentionally shorter in comparison just to fit them all in.

There were also times when I dreaded the task. Some weeks it took everything in me to head back to the bookshelf and grab another but I knew I had to keep it going.
Somewhere along the way, I told myself I'd make it a full year. There are a couple of certifications I've had in my sight and I know how difficult and time-consuming the studying process would be.

What does any of this have to do with a fitness newsletter?

Maybe more than you think which is why I thought I would dedicate this letter to each of you.

Picture yourself embarking on any fitness journey: losing weight, gaining strength, aiming for a competition (endurance, strength or combination).
You start off with a goal and you know it will take "X" amount of time to accomplish it. Maybe you're realistic with the time commitment and maybe you're not. But after a few weeks in, you realize that time won't always be on your side.

Despite your best efforts, careful diligence and sincere desire to succeed there will always be things that stand in your way: work, family, daily outlook, potential illness, vacation, holidays, etc.

One step you might take is making a public announcement of your goals. Tell your friends "I'm training for a half marathon", or "I'm trying to lose 50lbs in a year". Involve the people who you know will be honest with you in efforts to keep you going. Realize that some may (for reasons unknown) attempt to sabotage your efforts. Give yourself a mental plan for how you can stay on pace without affecting too much of your life.

Accept the fact that some days/weeks will be significantly easier than others and you still have to keep your eye on the prize.

There will be days when you detest the activity and it would be profoundly easier to back out, take a day off, and get off course.

Realize that every worthwhile goal takes both sacrifice and compromise in equal measure:

I own a business.
I work 50+ hours a week.
My work schedule is rarely the same from day to day.
I train myself 5 days a week (3 days strength, 2 days cardio).
I make every effort to have some semblance of a social life.
And despite all of those "obstacles", there was still time to fit in 158 books in 52 weeks.

No, I'm not asking you to embark on the same book frenzy that I did. But I am asking you to take a personal inventory and realize that health/fitness/wellness are an ongoing process and you can rarely succeed on your own. There IS time in the day for you to make time for yourself if you know how to schedule it accordingly. Trust that there will be imperfect workouts, imperfect nutrition, and many detours.

Where does your journey start?

Friday, September 27, 2013

Introducing...


The newest member of the RevFit family, trainer Megan Winiarski! Megan is a graduate of Kent State University. She got her degree in educational studies with a focus on health and physical education and also has a minor in community health. During college, Megan coached golf and softball and participated in numerous student organizations. She values family and friends and was recently married on June 22, 2013. She enjoys working with individuals who strive to better themselves through fitness. Developing programs that fit and complement the individual's goal or goals is her primary focus.  Megan is a certified personal trainer through the ASFA (American Sports and Fitness Association).   Our current clients love her and I'm sure you will too.

Thursday, September 19, 2013

The Battle at Home

Staying the course is so much easier said than done.

You make plans, maybe even a list of the things you need to do to get your health/physique/weight in line to something closer to where you want it. In the grand scheme of things, you'd think it would be like a grocery list. Go down the aisle, get your food, cross a line off the item on your list and move on. Theoretically, your health and fitness work in a similar manner.

Until life happens.

Let's assume the list looks something like this:

Exercise 5 times a week
No junk food
Log food into journal
Track calories burned
No late-night snacking
Only 2 cups of coffee a day
Buy groceries on Sunday, prep food to start on Monday
Drink 3 liters of water a day.

Now that's not such an unrealistic list. It's measurable, short, and shows a series of baby steps.

All in all, I'd say if you could knock out that list consistently you'd be damn proud of your progress.

So Monday gets off to a great start. Food's in line, your exercise is either completed or scheduled for later in the day, you had your 2 cups of coffee and work's not going so bad.

Tuesday starts off much the same.

Then you get a message from your boss you're going to have to stay later than normal. So much for working out that night, have to shift 'til Wednesday. You barrel home between 7-8p and you haven't touched a morsel of food since noon. So, you let your ravenous urges take over and next thing you know you've consumed more than half your daily calories right before you retire for the evening. The optimist in the back of your head says "Just get back on the wagon tomorrow".

Wednesday comes and you oversleep. You rush to work, no breakfast. Head hurts and you order a double-mocha-frappa bomb at the local coffee shop. Your spouse calls and says, "I know you're stressed, let's just take the kids out for pizza tonight after their sports practice."

Sound vaguely familiar?

If not, maybe you don't have a spouse or kids. Your scenario may turn into friends, significant other, etc telling you it's the middle of the week and you need to head out for dinner and drinks to unwind a bit. And before you know it, the alcohol and food have turned into a 2000 calorie bender. But if you're not tracking your calories you wouldn't know how bad the numbers actually are.

Not to mention, the frustration when your friends/neighbor/significant other can eat anything that isn't nailed down and not gain a pound.

Not you, a fantasy about a brownie keeps the scale stuck in one place for 4 days.

Take a second.

Breathe.

There IS a way out.

The problem with the "list" is that although it seems easy, it can be terribly daunting in practice. Screw up one day and it's easy to blow a week.

But also remember, it's about the steps. Take one of those items and commit. Take a week with it, maybe two. Get comfortable. Then move on to the next item.

Don't treat it like a grocery list or a daily to-do. This is much bigger, far more important.

I try to tell people, take the easiest item first. Make it a habit. Then move on. You didn't habitually brush your teeth every day. You were instructed, supervised, and reminded it had to be done. One bad trip to the dentist reminded you of the importance. Now brushing your teeth is a 2-3x daily ordeal. Piece of cake. No pun intended.

The journey may begin with a step but the journey doesn't end just because you took the first step. Steps must be continued, made habitual, and become second nature.

The battle at home begins with choice. The good news is, nearly every possible decision that needs to be made about your health is YOUR CHOICE.

We can help you pick the wise ones.

Wednesday, September 4, 2013

Something REALLY Special

I want to let you in on an exclusive secret. Over the last several months, I've been privy to a brand new product that is going to blow the socks off of anyone who tries it. In fact, once this concoction hits the market, I will probably be able to retire a very rich man.

Just some of the details about this amazing drink:

It's gluten-free
Non-GMO
Lactose free
Vegan and vegetarian friendly
Sugar free
High in Omega-3's
Only has 5 calories per serving
High in essential vitamins and minerals
Has the equivalent of 5 fruits and vegetables per serving
Chock full of organic, natural stimulants that are 100% non-habit forming and won't make you crash
Scientifically proven in double-blind studies to melt body fat
And price wise?

Only $30 for a month supply.

Because I'm close with the manufacturer I can tell you that I am the only person to break this news so far. But once it's released, EVERYBODY is going to know about it.

It's called:

SEXY JUICE!

Hopefully, you were able to realize before you heard the name of this: this product is NOT REAL.

But wow...it sure sounds a nice!!

The sad thing is: someone out there (actually lots of people) are peddling products like this to you. Promises of better looking bodies with lightning fast results. Please understand: these products (generally) are overhyped garbage.

That doesn't necessarily mean they aren't somewhat effective but try to see through the smoke and mirrors.

Chances are you have either heard of or are using products that are boasting many of the benefits of what you saw above. And as the media continues to perpetuate our need for more, it becomes difficult to see something out there and go "Gee, I bet you I could really look, feel, and perform better if I just took Product X!

Not to mention, all of these companies are making a huge mint off of you selling these things to your friends, which they in turn sell to their friends and next thing you know...we've all quit our jobs living off the residual income from Product X.

So, be skeptical of what's out there. The supplement industry is not even remotely regulated for safety by the FDA (that goes for organic supplements too). Current laws have allowed the supplement industry to pump out unheard of amounts of products and it could take months if not years before a harmful ingredient attracts enough attention to be banned. By the time an ingredient does get ripped out, there are very savvy chemists who have devised another combination to get filtered back in so products don't have to disappear completely.

These companies are trying to wow you with just enough buzzwords in their descriptions that you just couldn't possibly turn them down.

And chances are, if you have any involvement on Facebook or Twitter, you've got friends who are really publicizing things not too different than what I mentioned above.

So, while SEXY JUICE doesn't exist there was probably a moment where you were going through the list of benefits saying, "WOW, I've gotta get that!"

The lure of SEXY JUICE may be too hard to resist, but as my father was always smart enough to remind me "If it sounds too good to be true..." Well, you know the rest!

Thursday, August 22, 2013

It Depends...

How quickly can I lose this weight?
How hard should I be working out?
How many carbs should I be eating?
What supplements will help attain goal "X"?

The answer begins with the two words above: It Depends

So often, it's easy to forget the goal we're after. Is it strength, weight loss, better stamina, better sex life, all of the above simultaneously?

Let's cover the givens:

Genetics will always play a significant part. Whatever ratio you want to attribute to your overall results (20,30,40%)
Consistency is crucial. Do you give the program your all 1,2, or 3 days in a row?
How high is your stress level and how well do you cope?
How are you sleeping? How many hours of quality deep sleep?
Oh yeah, before I forget, how young are you? 28 or 68? Makes quite a difference...

There is no ideal circumstance. There is only YOUR circumstance. And the results, no matter how they come, depend almost solely on YOU.

Granted, you can hire someone like me. Or you can find your answers from a website/magazine/book. Join a class, fitness community, or you can keep sitting around at your desk hoping your results will come via osmosis...Let me know how that last one works out for you!

It's important, if not vital, to appreciate and embrace your differences and realize the path you're on is one only you can discover success on. Not what your best friend saw success with (although that may happen).

Where it all gets confusing is the massive amount of information getting poured on you no matter where you go. Should you be training like the elite? Should you starve yourself for faster results. Maybe you'll just say screw it and get cosmetic surgery.

Remember the mass media is spending millions trying to persuade you into a given direction. You can't visit a single website these days without a banner ad telling you how strong, thin, or invincible their amazing product can make you. There are pyramid schemes with supplements to dazzle you with effectiveness and make you rich with promises of endless residual income. What's not to like and be enticed by?

It (all) depends.

My questions to you: How hard will you work to get results you can be proud of? How patient can you be to try different options and stick with something diligently before you determine it's efficacy?

The good news: there is something out there for every BODY. The one thing you can't afford to do is rush the results or sit on your butt hoping for that proverbial pill to get your attention.

We can decipher the rest of the nonsense for you.

Thursday, August 15, 2013

The Elimination Diet

See if this sounds familiar: You've just read/watched/heard about some nutrient or food group that is going to wreak complete havoc on your body and shorten your lifespan if you continue to consume it. And this wasn't just any old piece of alarmist media, it comes straight from the mouth of (insert trusted media journalist, internet guru or talkshow doctor here).

What should you do?

Let me get this disclaimer out of the way first. This message pertains only to people who are not removing foods because of religious or ethical reasons. If, for example, you are completely opposed to the handling of animals for food and as such have chosen to be vegan/vegetarian, I'm not touching that one. I respect anyone's beliefs and think you should stand your ground accordingly.

But for the REST of you...and believe me, that's a lot...

Let's pick on a good buzz topic: gluten.

However, you can insert anything here: dairy, red meat, etc.

We will also need to do some simple mathematics.

Suppose you are a somewhat overweight individual who consumes an average of 2000 calories a day. You have just read a highly inflammatory book about the terrors of gluten. You sit and examine your diet and it looks something like this:

Bagel with cream-cheese for breakfast (Bruegger's?)
Turkey and cheese sandwich for lunch (Panera?)
Spaghetti and meatballs for dinner (Olive Garden?)

If the aforementioned book got you all unnerved, you would take a diet like this and change it to:

2 eggs for breakfast
Chicken salad for lunch
Pork chops and broccoli for dinner

After 1 month of dietary changes like this, you lose 10lbs. You make the somewhat safe assumption that gluten was to blame and you're never having another piece of bread, cookie, cracker, pasta again.

However, you've forgotten a slight detail. Without even remotely cracking a calorie count, by eliminating all gluten products from the first mealplan you have cut back on your calories by 500-800 a day. It's very safe to assume that you have lost weight not because of lack of gluten but because of a decrease in total calories. Had you taken the first mealplan and cut back on portion sizes to net the same total intake the results would have been...about the same.

But wait! That same gluten bashing book also said that I would have less soreness, bloating, and overall crankiness if I pulled it out of my diet and when I took it out I FELT SO MUCH BETTER!!!

This is, in many ways, anecdotal at best. And here we have the PLACEBO EFFECT.

If you trust the source of your information and you convince yourself that if you follow THAT PLAN, you will feel/look/perform better then there is good reason to assume that you will. In addition, if you were to carelessly eat a piece of bread one evening on your gluten-free diet you may tell yourself through every bite "I'm really going to feel like crap because of this bread". Then guess what...you probably will feel like crap. And yet again, you will blame gluten for all of your life's miseries.

Life/Diet/Health, my friends, is all about BALANCE. Unfortunately, some people hear that word and they equate it to walking on a tightrope with their eyes closed and a hard breeze blowing against them.

Let me clear the air of one more thing too. There are SOME people who have legitimate allergies, which have been tested for, diagnosed, and advised with. If you have Celiac disease, by all means, stay away from gluten.

I can also safely say that it's more likely we all have a threshold. For instance, I might be able to tolerate 8-10 ounces of dairy products a day. You, on the other hand, might only be able to tolerate 4-6 ounces. This is closer to reality.

Make rational decisions with your food, if you feel the need to experiment with different portions and intake amounts of different food groups and nutrients, by all means DO IT.

But playing the elimination game not only can have negative physical ramifications but can screw with your mental perception of food as well.

Need guidance? We can help.